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Should We Educate Everyone About Gynaecological Health?

Should We Educate Everyone About Gynaecological Health? | Jo Divine

Research conducted by the Eve Appeal 2017 found around one in six men know nothing about gynaecological health issues and don’t feel that they need to know, as it is a female issue.

They found that 50% of the 1,000 men surveyed were unable to identify the vulva, cervix, ovaries and Fallopian tubes on a diagram, similar to the number of women who were surveyed last year with the same diagram which found that half of young women aged 16-25 couldn’t locate the vagina on a medical diagram.

Results also found that 65% of the women surveyed found it difficult to use the word vagina itself.

Last year the Eve Appeal launched their campaign for Gynae Cancer Awareness Month which was all about raising awareness about knowing what is normal for and for the first time including men in the campaign which is brilliant.

Team Eve asked all “Eves” and all the “Adams” in their lives from their partners, sons, dads, uncles, godfathers, grandads and male friends to be aware of the sign and symptoms associated with gynecological cancers. It’s not just a “female” thing, men need to encourage their loved ones to seek help if they notice anything abnormal.

Athena Laminsos CEO of the Eve Appeal told the Huff Post about a talk she gave starting her pitch about The Eve Appeal by asking a question: “How many of you are aware of prostate cancer and its signs or symptoms?” – about 95% of the room put their hands up.

She then asked the same question about womb cancer and only 5% of the room raised their hands. You would think she was talking to a room of men but there was actually only 1 man in the room, the rest were women so why did they know about prostate cancer but not womb cancer which is the 4th most common cancer to affect women in the UK?

This year the campaign is #GetLippy to get everyone talking about gynaecological health.

They have just launched their new campaign for Gynaecological Cancer Awareness Month calling for a cancer education programme, to address taboos and teach girls and boys enhanced body knowledge. We also want all school children to learn about the benefits and purpose of the HPV vaccination programme, alongside the cervical cancer screening programme.

What stops women and their loved ones from knowing about their bodies and how can we change this?

Public Health England (2018) recently published result from a survey of which found women struggle to talk about reproductive and gynaecological issues due to embarrassment. They found that of the 7,367 women surveyed, 31% had experienced severe reproductive health symptoms in the last 12 months, ranging from heavy menstrual bleeding to menopause, incontinence to infertility yet only 50 % sought medical advice.

Despite sex being thrown in our face every day through the press, on social media and being happy at exposing our vulva to our beauty therapist when we go for a wax we still struggle to talk about our bodies because of embarrassment and the difficulty in using words like vagina, vulva, periods, discharge and lubrication or go for our smear test

Another factor is the fear that it may be something abnormal which is why getting it checked out is important because many symptoms are harmless and can be easily explained and treated to save you hours of worrying.

However if it does feel abnormal for you, ask to be referred to a gynaecologist by your GP

Sadly many women say if they has been braver and sought treatment earlier they would not have required such invasive cancer treatment which has left a lasting impact upon their lives and health.

Cancer does not know your age, yet many younger people are dismissed as being too young to have that type of cancer. Whilst parameters have to exist when diagnosing people, doctors still need to keep in their mind, could this be cancer, rather than dismiss symptoms or misdiagnose their patient?

Lydia was 24 when she was diagnosed with womb cancer and Karen was also 24 when she was diagnosed with cervical cancer.

Let’s Talk about Sex

Better sex education in schools and universities can help to encourage young people become familiar and at ease when talking about their gynae health from periods, safe sex, vagina health to pornography.

The Public Health England (PHE) survey also found that those aged 25 to 34 were the least satisfied in bed, with 49 per cent complaining of a lack of sexual enjoyment. Many experienced difficulty communicating with their partner, unhappy relationships and sexually transmitted infections.

Sexual satisfaction was slighty higher for women aged 55 to 64 with less than 33% reporting an unfulfilled sex life. However, the survey did not include if this was because they were enjoying more sex or simply having less sex but enjoying more sexual satisfaction.

Dr Jane Dickson who is vice president of the Faculty of Sexual and Reproductive Healthcare, says:

“The importance of having a healthy, enjoyable sexual life cannot be overstated as this strongly contributes to general wellbeing”.

A healthy sex life offers numerous health benefits to both physical and mental wellbeing, yet women still struggle to enjoy sexual satisfaction as female pleasure is so often overlooked within healthcare.

Help is available

Working with many healthcare professionals across the UK who recommend some of our sex toys and give out our health brochure to their patients to help them overcome gynaecological conditions and post surgery or cancer treatment we have many male customers calling and ordering products for their female partners to help them overcome sexual health issues to to enable them both to enjoy sexual intimacy and pleasure together.

We often hear when a partner has encouraged their female partner to go to the GP to seek advice when they notice abnormal symptoms.

Gynaecological cancer doesn’t just impact upon the health of the woman but her family and friends too. We know that relationships break down when sex is no longer possible, it feels painful or couples just give trying to enjoy good sexual intimacy and pleasure because they aren’t offer any advice by their GP or consultant.

Many couples mourn the loss of their intimate relationship and end up living celibate lives which is so sad when sexual intimacy and pleasure is so beneficial to your physical and mental wellbeing.

It is so important for couples to talk to each other about how they feel, when sex feels uncomfortable or painful or why they are avoiding sex so they can seek medical advice.

Painful sex is a common problem yet many couple give up or the woman will endure it just so she can remain intimate.

There are so many reasons why sex may feel painful, the most common being vaginal dryness but there are a variety of gynaecological conditions that impact upon sexual intercourse such as vaginismus, vaginal atrophy, post childbirth scarring, hormonal changes and the impact of surgical or medical conditions.

Exploring new ways to pleasurable sex is a good ways for couples to communicate, and connect intimately even when penetrative sex is not possible. Sex is so much more than penetration, something many healthcare professionals overlook when advising their patients.

Being incontinent is not normal yet many women struggle daily with pelvic floor weakness.

The Impact on Work Life

Many gynaecological conditions impact on daily life from painful periods, symptoms of the menopause such as vaginal atrophy, endometriosis, premenstrual dysmorphic disorder (PMDD) the list is endless. Some women even have to give up work or are even dismissed due to their symptoms and many young girls miss days from school due to painful periods or period poverty as they cannot afford tampons or pads.

The hidden burden of reproductive health was particularly evident in the workplace. Focus groups undertaken as part of the study revealed that reproductive symptoms often affect women’s ability to carry out daily activities, but many conceal their symptoms from work colleagues.

Previous studies show that 12% of women have taken a day off work due to menopause symptoms and 59% have lied to their boss about the reasons for their absence. In addition, the PHE survey revealed that 35% of women have experienced heavy menstrual bleeding, which previous evidence shows is associated with higher unemployment and absence from work.

Some women have to give up their employment because they cannot cope with their health issues in the workplace or are unable to concentrate on their work. This is such a great loss of experience, expertise and knowledge within the workforce.

Therefore we need an open conversation about reproductive/gynaecological health to educate both employers and employees so women feel confident about talking about their reasons for needing time off. Working with occupational health can help women manage their health issues at work to reduce the need to take time off, which in turn, improves working conditions, productivity and saves money for businesses too.

The PHE survey results will form the basis of a cross-governmental 5-year action plan on reproductive health.

Partner/Family Support

We know when partners are involved and informed in their partner’s care and treatment their recovery is often quicker and they are more supported. Research by Ussher et al (2013) found that those couples with a close relationship prior to cancer were more successful at renegotiating their sexual relationship whatever their sexual orientation.

Supportive partners had a positive effect upon sexual intimacy which was hugely beneficial.

Understanding and talking about gynae health is in the interests of everyone. The majority of people have a mother, sister, grandmother, aunt, godmother or female friends so knowing what is normal is important. It could just save their life.

Useful Websites

The Eve
GRACE: Gynae-Oncology Clinical Research and Excellence:
Womb Cancer Support :
Jo’s Trust :
Ovarian Cancer Action :
Ovacome :
Daisy Network :
Menopause Support :
Cancer Research
The Royal
The Christie
Clic Sargent :
Trekstock :
Shine Cancer Support :
Royal College of Obstetrics and Gynaecology-
Endometriosis UK :
The Vicious Cycle :
National Association for Premenstrual Syndrome :
Menopause in the Workplace :

Lydia Brain was diagnosed with a inflammatory myofibroblastomic tumour in her uterus at the age of 24. Undergoing surgery she was put into a surgical menopause and is infertile. As an advocate and campaigners for GRACE and Trekstock champion she is using her experience to raise awareness about having womb cancer as a young woman, recognising the symptoms and why HCPs need to take notice of your symptoms whatever your age. You can follow Lydia @lid_jar

Cancer and Fertility : This has been set up by Becki McGuinness who was left infertile by aggressive cancer treatment when she was just 23-years-old. Now 30, she’s launching a national campaign to ensure women facing cancer are given all the fertility options she should have had

Many people blog about their experience of cervical cancer and I had the pleasure of meeting Karen Hobbs at her amazing comedy show “Tumour Has It” which takes you on her journey of having cervical cancer at the very young age of 24. The show made me laugh, cry and really think about what a person goes through when they get diagnosed with cancer. Even though I’ve cared for many people with cancer during my nursing career and have had family and friends who have had cancer, it is hard to put yourself in their shoes.

She also has a brilliant blog “”. Working with the Eve Appeal, Karen wants to educate all women about checking yourself for any abnormal signs and symptoms, seeking treatment as soon as possible and having a regular smear test so please read her blog and catch her show if you can.

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