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Confessions of a Vibrator Virgin

We've all got to start somewhere! The Vibrator Virgin offers her honest opinions on her experiences as she enters the world of sex toys.

Hello from the Vibrator Virgin!

Welcome readers!

I’ve been asked by the wonderful people at Jo Divine to share my experiences with their fantastic products with you!

I’m a recent graduate in my early twenties, and I have a confession: I am a Vibrator Virgin! However, I’m sure I’m not alone! The kinkiest thing I’ve ever done is sexy-dress-up for my other half (we’ve been together for over three years, so I like to mix it up a bit from time to time), and I have a weakness for lingerie. Once, I did buy some “sexy dice” because I thought they’d be a bit of fun, but they turned out to be a bit disappointing. The idea of leaving your foreplay up to fate seems exciting, but in practice, it delayed the fun. I’m sure it was weighted, too, as “lick” and “foot” was the most common combination, and neither of us found that a particularly appealing activity!

I’ve had mixed feelings towards sex toys over the years. I remember when I was ten, at my friend’s house, she showed me and another chum her Mum’s bag of goodies she’d discovered under her parents’ bed. It was full of costumes, hand-cuffs, a cock ring shaped like a whale, and this absolutely enormous, plastic, garish monstrosity with a smiley face on the end of it. I was both amused and shocked- her Mum didn’t “seem the sort”. Who this mystery “sort” was, I still have no idea.

This attitude of hilarity and horror stayed with me until I actually started having sex, and especially when I met my other half. We have a fantastic sex life, and he always makes sure that my needs are being met, but there’s always room for experimentation!

I must admit, I do love a bit of kinkiness. We’ve experimented with bondage before, using his neck ties or a scarf, nothing too outrageous- I don’t think our bedroom will be turned into a Love Dungeon any time soon!

After meeting the lovely Jo Divine team, I’m being brave and will tell you, honestly, how I’m finding the products. I think one big issue around investing in a sex toy is that you need to know how it works, not just that is does work. Some of the stuff out there looks more puzzling than pleasurable, and some people just aren’t comfortable talking about it!

I also think that there’s a stigma around sex toys, that they’re for lonely people, or those who haven’t had any action for a while. However, there are actually health benefits for using toys, and they can add fun to sex rather than replacing a partner.

So, I’m biting the bullet (pun definitely intended) and I’ll be trying out the Kinky Bullet to ease myself in to the world of sex toys!

Vibrator Virgin and the RO-80

I must admit, I wasn’t in a particular sexy mood prior to try the RO-80 for the first time – I’d just had a shower and was getting ready for bed. The little plastic toy, in the humorously named “Horny Cow” cow print style, lay next to my bed, and as I pretended to get on with some work, I kept glancing at it out of the corner of my eye. It’s the same size as one of my lipsticks, so I didn’t really see how something that small could provide enough power to knock my socks off. I was wearing particularly woolly ones, after all.

Curiosity got the better of me, and I went through the power settings, feeling the sensations on the palm of my hand- I didn’t want to risk going in blind. Having never used a non-vibrating toy, let alone a little buzzer like the RO-80, I wanted to know exactly what I was dealing with. There are seven different settings, the first three being a constant buzz of varying speed, and then some quite alarming pulse settings that just seemed a bit too irregular for my liking, even on my hand.

Then I got the giggles and felt silly. Was I really about to do this? It wasn’t like I’d made much of an effort “setting the mood”- I was lying on my bed with my pyjama bottoms round my ankles. But then I looked at the clock, and realised my other half would probably be getting back from work soon, and I wanted “my first time” to be on my own. There was also a slight thrill at the thought of getting caught, so I took the plunge, and I was not disappointed!

I got a feel for the settings on my clitoris and vulva, and but my favourite was definitely the second (which is quite boring of me, really, but everyone’s different!) The only annoying thing about the Kinky Bullet is there’s no back button, so you have to go all the way through the settings to go back to the one you want. However, the smoothness of the Bullet and the roundness of the tip allow for precision, so you can touch all of those delicious little areas that feel so good!

Now, considering I wasn’t in any sexual mood before use, it took me surprisingly quickly to reach orgasm, and it was a big one that left me with my mouth hanging open, rendered speechless for five minutes. Being able to apply as much or as little pressure as I wanted with the added constant buzz meant that I was able to take full control of what I wanted!

When my partner came home, I couldn’t stop giggling and he became suspicious, so in the end I told him that I’d used my first ever sex toy. To my surprise, when we were getting down to the nitty gritty a few evenings later, he asked where my Bullet was! I can safely say that using the toy during sex was an added bonus! It was a true thrill having him take control, responding to my reactions as he circled my clitoris with the tip of the toy.

For such a small product, it really packs a punch, and I’m excited to try out different toys!

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