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Sexy Christmas Gifts For Men

Sexy Christmas Gifts For Men | Jo Divine

Struggling to find a present for your partner this year? Another jumper isn’t going to light any sexual sparks, so why not be more naughty than nice and get him what he really wants – the promise of fabulous sex!

Why not consider a gorgeous sex toy to add some Christmas spice to your festive fun?

Cock rings

Cock rings make great presents because they are small, non-threatening and great to share. Worn by men, a vibrating cock ring such as the Je Joue Mio offers increased sexual pleasure to you both. With the vibrating nub on the ring sitting comfortably against your clitoris providing fabulous fluttering vibrations and the tight ring around his penis making him feel bigger, harder and last longer, you can both enjoy amazing orgasms together.

Why not treat yourself and your partner with the Screaming O Charged Combo. You can slip the ABS plastic bullet into the very stretchy two-sided cock ring to enjoy vibrating enhancement with a partner, worn around just the penis or both penis and testicles, use the bullet in the finger sleeve to transform your fingertip into a powerful sex toy or just enjoy the bullet on its own.

The Rocks- Off Remix, powered by two RO-60mm bullets delivers intense vibrations to the clitoris, penis and testicles and can be used with or without the bullet. You can also use the bullets on their own.

Male masturbators

We all know men like to masturbate, so get him a male masturbator such as the Fleshlight, Verspanken He can either use for solo play or you can take control , driving him wild. The Fleshlight have a range of different internal sleeves to create a variety of sexual sensations and the Verspanken is great fun, offering foam or water filled “wieners”: lip-shaped sausages designed to be slipped over the penis for a totally wild ride.

The Tenga range of egg male masturbators make the perfect stocking filler and a great start to enjoying sex toys if your partner is a newcomer.

The Rocks-Off Hand Solo and Fun Factory Cobra Libra V2 both vibrate, stimulating the penis through varying levels of vibration and modes. When placed over the end of the penis, the Cobra sends waves of vibrations through to the base of the penis. The Hand Solo is designed to be stroked up and down the length of the penis, providing thrilling sensations with every stroke.

The Pulse III Solo is a superb vibrator which can be used with both an erect or flaccid penis, the unique vibrating plates offering a completely different sexual sensation to many other vibrators for men. The Pulse III Duo is designed for couples’ play with a remote control to change the intensity levels of the soft vibrating underside, which sends waves of intense pleasure clitoris, bringing new levels of intimacy to foreplay.

Buy a toy for yourself

Most men love the idea of watching their partner using a sex toy on themselves, so treat yourself to your own sex toy and create your own sex scene with your partner.

You don’t have to get the biggest product you can find which may scare your partner off! Why not start small if you are a beginner to the world of sex toys.

Clitoral stimulators are very small but offer intense levels of vibrations, superb for gently rubbing against your clitoris either just for your man’s eyes or during sexual intercourse. The vibrations travelling through your clitoris will make themselves felt in his penis, pleasuring you both.

Choose a vibrator vibrators to play over your clitoris and inside your body to help your partner understand what feels good for you and encourage him to repeat the action during sex. If you like a rabbit vibrator, choose the Fun Factory Miss Bi to enjoy blended clitoral and vaginal orgasms. Show your partner just how much sex toys can enhance both your sexual pleasure during sex to give him the boost to buy you more!

Share the Pleasure

Couples sex toys are a great to share your sexual pleasure, some are even remote control.

The Doppio 2 is an advanced vibrating toy for solo play or with your partner for foreplay and during penetrative sex. Take advantage of its 3 powerful motors and range of 7 speeds and vibration modes to discover the perfect sexual stimulation just for you.

The We-Vibe Ditto is a remote control vibrating butt plug, with a supplied remote control and the ability to be controlled by the We-Vibe Connect App. The app allows you to control your Ditto from an iPhone or Android phone. You can share access to your Ditto across the internet to allow a partner to control your plug, even when they are on the other side of the world! Great to use with YES BUT organic anal lubricant.


Using a good lubricant during sex or foreplay can greatly increase sexual pleasure, so invest in YES organic lubricant to enjoy a slippery Christmas. A well-lubricated penis can help a man last longer during sex and prolong his and your pleasure.

If you like really slippery sex, try ID Velvet silicone lubricant to have longer sex play. Just remember silicone lubricants should not be used with silicone sex toys but are great with glass or metal sex toys.

Get all tied up

Sometimes being naughty can be really nice! Light bondage such as ties and blindfolds can enhance your sexual tension, thus increasing your sexual pleasure. Try some silky ties to either bind your man to the bed or be bound yourself. Being restrained at the mercy of your partner will get your sexual juices flowing and make you feel both excited and nervous at the same time. Tying up your partner will put you in control, making you feel sexually powerful.

Depriving your partner of their sight will heighten their other senses such as hearing, touch and taste, so whisper what you are going to do to them, caress their skin with feather-like touches and feed them tiny morsels of chocolate or drizzle champagne over their lips and body and lightly lap it off with your tongue.

Play and tease their body with a Feather Slapper a kinky twist on a riding crop. With a feathery end for tantalising tickles, the added snap of the crop makes for the perfect combination of naughty and nice.

The gorgeous silicone whip from Sex and Mischief features touchable silicone strands, perfect for gentle sensory touch or a good old’ no-nonsense whipping.

Indulge in sensual touch with a Sensory Wheel and enjoy sensory deprived pleasure by adding a blindfold while you run the wheels along your partner’s skin.

Buy your own lingerie

To avoid that trip back to the lingerie shop after Christmas to return a present that is unsuitable or inappropriate, why not tell your man that you will be doing the lingerie shopping, then surprise him with your very own show! Tease him with flashes of your sexy bra under your clothes or let him feel what you are wearing under your skirt. Making sure that you buy lingerie that you feel good in will turn you and your man on and you never know, you may be making a trip back to the lingerie shop with your man in tow this time!

Make him a sexy hamper full of surprises

Who needs pre-made hampers at Christmas when you can make a personally designed hamper full of sexual treats just for him and you. Buy a small chest or wicker basket to create an adult toy box of fun and fill it with a fantastic sex toy, YES lubricant, a sensually scented massage oil or candle to incorporate a sensual massage into your foreplay, light bondage such as silky ties and blindfold or feathery ticklers to tantalise those sensitive places on his body.

Include an erotic book or film to enjoy together, or create your own message cards offering 12 months of treats or sexy suggestions of things you would like to do to him and vice versa. Pop in some dark chocolate along with a bottle of bubbly to drizzle over his body and lick off with your tongue. Finally, wrap it up in shiny paper and pop it under the tree, or keep it in a secret place until Christmas Day.

Make sure you give it to him in a quiet place unless you want to give your elderly relative a heart attack on Christmas Day. On the other hand, they might be very interested and want one of their own!