Create Your Own Fifty Shades of Pleasure

Create Your Own Fifty Shades of Pleasure

Read about the author Samantha Evans

Here at Jo Divine we sell a wide range of beautifully designed bondage products to please the most demanding of sexual needs so you are sure to find something to fulfil your own Fifty Shades of pleasure.

Sensory Deprived Sex

Blindfolds are a fantastic addition to your sex life to expand your erotic horizons in a non threatening manner. Easily portable and small enough to pack in your luggage when travelling, they won’t raise any eyebrows when passing through customs.

Sensory deprived sex can take your sex life to higher plains as your sense of taste, hearing, touch and smell all increase when your vision is removed, making your sex play more fun.

A man’s tie or sleep mask work well but why not treat yourself to one of our sensual Sex and Mischief 3 Stud Designer Leather Blindfold or Sex and Mischief Satin Blindfold to add a hint of luxury to your sex play.

Tie me up, tie me down

Being tied up or tying up your partner during sex play can be incredibly arousing. Being restrained during sex puts you at the mercy of your partner and vice versa, intensifying your sexual pleasure.

Why not try one of our luxurious bondage cuffs such as SportSheets Sports Cuff which double up as gorgeous bondage cuffs or a collar so you get to choose – Angel or Naughty Partner, Sex and Mischief Bed Bondage Restraint Kit or LELO Sutra Chainlink Cuffs to become your own Anastasia or Mr Grey!

Heighten your sense of touch

The sense of touch is heightened by sight deprivation so why not combine blindfold play with slow all over body massage using a massage candle to drizzle over your partner’s body or exotically scented massage oils.

Touching your partner’s body or being touched with a feather tickler such as Lelo Tantra Feather tickler or Sex and Mischief Feather Tickler can feel intensely pleasurable, or try a silk scarf to caress those intimate areas of their body.

Try running Sex and Mischief Sensory Wheel over your partner’s body.

Spank me please

Many people enjoy being spanked so why not indulge in some light spanking to ignite your sexual flame. You may end up with sore cheeks but all the better to enjoy having them massaged all over afterwards. You never know where those fingers and hands may end up!

Spanking paddles such as Sports Sheets Heart Leather Spanker is the ideal product to ensure that any naughty behaviour is thoroughly punished.

The Fun Factory Buck Dich is a 2 in 1 accessory offering a gorgeous flexible spanker, textured on one side to create anothe level of sexual pleasure and a beautifully crafted flexible handle using the familiar Fun Factory Tiger Dildo design. Bringing your kinky fantasies to life, the fun loving people at Fun Factory have designed Bück Dich ( “Bend Over” in German) a powerful half paddle, half dildo for impact enthusiasts.

Lightly whipped

The feeling of numerous cords whipped across your bottom or back can stimulate the most demanding of people. Spanker or spankee, this gorgeous silicone whip from Sex and Mischief features touchable silicone strands, perfect for gentle sensory touch or a good old’ no-nonsense whipping or try the Sex and Mischief Jewelled Flogger or Sex and Mischief Feather Slapper for a different kinky sexual sensation!

Dip your toes into S and M

If you are a S&M virgin, why not try dipping your toes ( and other body parts) into bondage and treat yourself or your partner to the Sex and Mischief Intro to S&M kit and join the increasing number of people adding more kinkiness to their sex lives.

The gorgeous Midnight Teardrop Nipple Clamps make for the ultimate accessory in bondage and role play.

Experimenting with S&M the Sportsheets Expandable Spreader Bar and Cuffs this versatile bondage tool allows you to be creative in your submissive sessions, or take control and drive your partner wild with added kinkiness to your play.

Sex toy fun for him and her

Sex toys aren’t just for women, men can join in the fun too. There are so many wonderful products to choose from including silicone, glass or metal dildos, vibrators, big, small, smooth and textured, cock rings, anal toys and couples toys.

Using a vibrator on your partner can be incredibly arousing for both or you. Try a couples’ toy such as the My Secret Panty Vibe which is remote control. Using this toy whilst sharing a meal in a restaurant or when at a party will get all your juices flowing for a night of steamy sex. You may not make it to the dessert course but have to make a swift exit for home!

Wearing Lelo Luna exercise balls will make you moist and tone your pelvic floor muscles. Strengthening these muscles will make your orgasms stronger, more intense and last longer.

Why not create your own sex show by watching your partner use a sex toy on herself or join in the fun and take control of her pleasure. If she enjoys a smaller toy, try Picobong Zizo or completely fill her up with a Fun Factory Big Boss G5 and take her to new sexual heights.

Rabbit vibrators offer dual stimulation so why not try the beautifully designed Fun Factory Miss Bi or the innovative Rocks-Off Enigma with its unique ergonomic design putting you in control.

For the adventuorus, the Satisfyer Pro G-Spot Rabbit combines air pulse stimulation with a gorgeous vibrating shaft!

The Satisfyer Pro Plus Vibration combines the air pulse technology of the Satisfyer Pro 2 with classic vibrations, creating the perfect 3 in 1 sex toy to indulge in sensual clitoral play.

Male vibrators are great fun and a vibrating cock ring worn during sex, such as the Je Joue Mio will pleasure you both, offering waves of vibrations through his erection, in addition to making him feel bigger and stimulating the clitoris, bringing about mind blowing orgasmic pleasure. You may enjoy the ride so much you might not want it to stop.

For the man in your life the Pulse Solo Essential is the ultimate guybrator with its unique oscillating PulsePlates, designed to provide the most powerful orgasm yet

Sex toys come in many materials which offer a wide variety of sexual sensations, from silky smooth silicone to rigid glass dildos or metals dildos, perfect when warmed in hot water or cooled down in the fridge for temperature play.

Anal toys, such as butt plugs or anal beads can create a different sexual feeling during sex play, elevating your sexual pleasure and escalating your orgasms into unknown territory.

Why not try a remote control anal plug in the form of the fabulous We-Vibe Ditto, you can share access to your Ditto across the internet to allow a partner to control your plug, even when they are on the other side of the world!

Vibrating anal toys produce waves of sexual pleasure which can emanate throughout your lower body, intensifying your arousal.

Whatever your Fifty shades of sexual pleasure are, take a look at what we have to offer at Jo Divine and create your own Red Room.