Spring Clean Your Sex Life

Spring Clean Your Sex Life

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Does your sex life feel a little flat and in need of a spruce? Get creative with your partner with these great ways that can help you to put the spring back into your sex play!

Have some feathery fun

Experimental sex play isn’t all about whips and chains- sometimes a lighter touch can bring you paramount sexual pleasure!

Dusters aren’t just for spring cleaning; tease your partner with flirtatious feathers, such as the Sex & Mischief Feather Tickler. Fluttering the feathered tip across your partner’s sensitive skin will drive them wild, sending new pleasure sensations right to their core.

To get the perfect balance of naughty and nice, why not experiment with Feathered Nipple Clamps for visual thrills as well as scintillating sensations? Many people find nipple play to be a highly erotic way to enhance sexual intimacy in all new ways.

Sensual suggestions

If you’re shy about talking to your partner about your likes and dislikes when it comes to sex, have the both of you write them down on strips of paper. Fold them over and keep these sexy notes in a bowl. Once in awhile, dip into the bowl and try out what’s written down!

These sexy suggestions could be anything from trying out sex tips you may have heard or seen to a sensual body massage, it’s up to you! However, only act out the suggestion if you’re both comfortable with it, though chances are you and your partner will have more similar tastes than you previously thought.

Boost your boudoir

When was the last time you changed the sheets? No, not just washing them! Dowdy floral patterns and worn out fabric isn’t exactly a great way to enhance the erotic atmosphere in your bedroom.

A simple way to make your boudoir the perfect setting for sensual sex play is with some new bedding. While you’re at it, treat yourself to something silky and slinky to wear when you slip between the sheets! Sportsheets Midnight Black Jewelled Nipple Clips are also a great option if you prefer to sleep in the nude, as they add visual thrills with an erotic touch.

How about turning your bed into an instant bondage bedroom to allow you to explore the heady pleasures of domination and submission with Sex and Mischief Bed Bondage Restraints

If you’re in an erotic setting, you’re more likely to feel in the mood for sex, so stock up on essentials such as scented candles or incense sticks and dim the lighting. Simple touches like this will increase your intimacy in no time.

De-stress and de-clutter

Historically, spring cleaning is thought to be linked to the ancient Jewish practice of thoroughly cleaning your house for Passover, but in many other cultures an annual clean is thought to occur at the end of the year, which is either spring or winter.

Having a good clear out is a great way to give your bedroom a boost, and finding new homes for your belongings that aren’t bedroom essentials will ensure that your bedroom remains a sex haven. Making an effort to keep your boudoir clutter free will be beneficial to your sex life as well as your overall demeanour as you won’t be stressing over the mess.

Luscious lubrication

While a good sexual lube such as Yes Organic Lubricant can help to improve sex, it also replenishes the skin, making it feel healthier and smoother.

Yes Organic Oil Based Lubricant can not only be used on your delicate areas, but can make for a great replacement for massage oil! The great thing about oil based lubricant is a little goes a long way. With incredible moisturising qualities, it nourishes the skin rather than leaving behind any nasty residues.

Using Yes Oil Based or ID Velvet Silicone Lubricant as a massage oil as well as a sexual lubricant also means that you only need one tube by the bedside table instead of a whole host of lotions and potions to enhance your sexual intimacy and pleasure. Just remember that silicone lubricant is not compatible with silicone sex toys.

Recharge your batteries

If your home life is getting in the way of your sex life, it’s time to take a break! Book a weekend away or even just a night in a hotel so the two of you can reconnect in peace. Enjoying the night alone together is a great way to reignite the passion in your relationship and explore each other in new ways.

You can also experiment with role play: strangers meeting in the bar, a forbidden affair between lovers or play out your own fantasy. The key is to make the most of your vivacious vacation!

Start foreplay off with a bang!

If you’re looking to introduce sex toys into your sex play, then bullet vibrators are a great place to start. While they are fabulous for solo ventures, bullet vibrators such as the Screaming O Vooom are discreet enough for you to both enjoy during intercourse.

Alternatively, a vibrating cock ring like the Je Joue Mio provides clitoral stimulation for her, and increases the girth of his penis and prolongs sex sessions for the ultimate thrill ride!

So dust off those cobwebs and give your love life the Spring Clean it deserves!