Jo Divine Magazine

Sexploration

Feeling kinky? This is the place to read about people's real sexual feelings and experiences. Click here to see all Sexploration articles.

Misconceptions about BDSM (and the truth behind them)

Eleni Peitho, Apr 09, 2021

Following on from her "Introduction to BDSM", Eleni shares some of the most common misconceptions about BDSM and the truth behind them.

An Introduction To BDSM

Eleni Peitho, Mar 25, 2021

What comes to mind when you hear "BDSM"? Here, Eleni guides us through the basics of BDSM and explains why 50 Shades of Grey isn't a particularly good example on which to base your opinions.

How to Discover Your Dominant Side

Staff, Mar 19, 2021

Curious about having more confidence in the bedroom? Wish you could dominate your partner? The fabulous Sadistic Coach offers her expert advice about ways to discover your dominant side to help you "go forth, conquer, and most importantly, have fun".

Would you watch your partner have sex with someone else?

Eleni Peitho, Feb 01, 2021

Eleni writes about watching your partner or being watched having sex with another person, emphasising the importance of honesty and open-mindedness, a solid base, communication, mutual respect and consent, clear boundaries and being aware of couple priviledge. "The most important thing is finding what works for you and, of course, having fun!"

A Steamy Spa Date

Eleni Peitho, Jun 18, 2021

Eleni takes us on an intense first date, to a sexy spa in Germany.

The building blocks of BDSM relationships (and how they relate to everyone)

Eleni Peitho, Jun 04, 2021

Eleni elaborates on some of the most important components of BDSM relationships, and how they are relevant to everyone.

Latest Articles

Welcome to the Jo Divine Magazine. We have an unrivalled collection of articles on everything from sexual health, toy reviews to kink and sexual exploration.

A Steamy Spa Date

A Steamy Spa Date

Eleni takes us on an intense first date, to a sexy spa in Germany.

Menopause and Libido

Menopause and Libido

Struggling with low libido? Taking HRT and testosterone can help, however, low hormonal levels may not just be the only reason your libido is low so take a look at your sexual health, relationships, lifestyle work and family life as these can all affect your sexual desire and arousal.

The building blocks of BDSM relationships (and how they relate to everyone)

The building blocks of BDSM relationships (and how they relate to everyone)

Eleni elaborates on some of the most important components of BDSM relationships, and how they are relevant to everyone.

Sexual Health

Don't let health problems stop you from having a great sex life - find out how to combat them here. Click here to see all Sexual Health articles.

Creating an Intimacy Bag

Samantha Evans, Mar 11, 2021

Creating an Intimacy Bag is a great way to get your sex life back on track and help you feel more sexual when you have had or have a sexual health issues. "Your intimacy bag can be your fun bag, your way to regaining your sexual function and enjoying sexual intimacy and pleasure in whatever way you wish or are able to".

Condom allergy? It could be the lubrication!

Samantha Evans, Feb 10, 2021

Have you switched to a non latex condom because you think you have a latex allergy? It could be the lubricant on the condom or the lubricant you are using and not a latex allergy!

10 Ways Sex Can Boost Your Health

Megan Barnett, Jan 25, 2021

Sex doesn't just feel good, it does good too! We take a look at 10 different ways sex can improve your overall health and wellbeing including better sleep, looking younger, boosting immunity and increasing your productivity , just to name a few.

When Sex is Silent - Living with Cancer

, Jan 21, 2021

Cheryl Johnson wrote this fabulous article about her experience of being diagnosed with cancer and this impact of treatment, yet at no point during her journey did any medical or healthcare professional talk to her about sex. She created her blog to help anyone going through cancer treatment enjoy pleasurable sex and make talking about sex a compulsory part of care.

Breastfeeding and Sex - Use A Good Lube

Samantha Evans, Jul 01, 2021

Samantha shares why using a good irritant free lube is important when breastfeeding.

Don’t forget to use a good lube if you take antihistamines

Samantha Evans, Jun 22, 2021

Samantha shares why using a good irrtiant free lube is important if you take antihistamines.

Sex Tips

Get better in the bedroom! Click here to see all Sex Tips articles.

Rev up Your Sexual Pleasure This Year

Samantha Evans, Jan 04, 2021

Improve your sexual health and pleasure this new year by introducing a sex toy into your relationship..

Create your own sexual fireworks every night!

Samantha Evans, Nov 02, 2020

You may love the brightly coloured, noisy fireworks that light up the sky at this time of year, but why not spice up your sex life and create your own sexual firework display at home. You don't have to wait for Bonfire Night to enjoy amazing fireworks: you can make your own at home everyday!

What gay women can teach straight women about sex

Samantha Evans, Jun 02, 2020

Straight Women can learn more about sexual intimacy and pleasure if they listened to their gay female friends, from discovering new sexual sensations to ways to orgasms more frequently.

How To Have A Better Orgasm - Channel 5

Samantha Evans, Mar 23, 2020

Our co-founder Samantha is excited to share her TV debut "How to have a better orgasm" on Channel 5 on Thursday 27th February at 10pm. She really proud of being part of this programme and hope by sharing her experience helps to educate and inform many people so they can enjoy better sex, intimacy, pleasure and orgasms.

The Blue Tit – a 101 on how to get naughty with titw*nks for beginners

Alice Hunter, Jan 08, 2021

Alice shares her in-depth guide on how to get naughty with titw*nks for virgins. From positions, using plenty of lube, being enthusiastic and checking in with partners she says "Rather than simply being pornographic, the titw*nk can be highly personal".

Try a New Year Sex Detox

Samantha Evans, Jan 07, 2021

Spice up your sexual pleasure by adding sex toys into your sex play, tell your partner exactly what you want, talk about your sexual fantasies or make a wish list of all the sexual activities you'd love to try this year.

Perspectives

Sometimes silly, sometimes serious, Perspectives is where our writers run free with their ideas and opinions. Click here to see all Perspectives articles.

A Day in The Life of a Sex Therapist

Julie Sale, Jul 10, 2020

Curious about what a sex therapist does? Julie Sale shares her fascinating and varied day as a sex therapist.

Ethical Nonmonogamy

Eleni Peitho, Mar 23, 2020

Eleni shares her personal experience on nonmonogamy after the slow realisation that monogamy wasn’t working particularly well. For some, monogamy works perfectly, for others exploring ethical nonmonogamy can be the route to enjoying better relationships.

Fantasies and Desires

Eleni Peitho, Feb 14, 2020

Eleni takes us on a journey into her mind and opens up about her thoughts surrounding fantasies and desires, something many of us enjoy, either in our own heads or acting them out in real life. Our brain is a very sexual part of our body and as Eleni says "the beauty of fantasy is that literally anything goes".

Introducing Eleni

Eleni Peitho, Feb 13, 2020

Meet Eleni who has been exploring kink and nonmonogamy since 2015. As a staunch feminist and a vegan who has type 1 diabetes; all of which impact her experiences in the worlds of kink and BDSM she loves to share her thoughts with anyone willing to listen.

Sex and type 1 diabetes

MJ Sohal, Feb 17, 2021

MJ writes about her experience of living with type 1 diabetes, the impact it has upon her relationships, enjoying sexual intimacy and pleasure and why talking about sex with your healthcare team is just as important as discussing your eyes, feet, urine and blood pressure.

Winning back our sex life after prostate cancer - a personal story by Elvin Box

, Nov 25, 2020

Elvin Box, a survivor of Prostate cancer and passionate campaigner shares his honest experience of the sexual impact cancer has had upon his physical, and mental wellbeing and his relationship with his wife.

Sex Toy Tips

Get the most out of your toys! Click here to see all Sex Toy Tips articles.

Unique Sex Toys That Offer More Than Just Vibrations

Samantha Evans, May 10, 2017

Looking for a unique sex toy? Read all about these gorgeous sex toys which offer amazing sexual stimulation and breathtaking orgasms going beyond the buzz of classic sex toys.

How to use the Satisfyer

Samantha Evans, Dec 08, 2016

The Satisfyer Pro 2 is an incredibly unique clitoral stimulator that is completely different to classic vibrating products. To ensure you make the most of your Satisfyer, we've compiled a quick guide on how to use the Satisfyer Pro 2.

Sex Aids for Older Adults

Samantha Evans, Sep 30, 2016

Older adults consider sexual intimacy and pleasure extremely important and hugely beneficial to their physical and mental well being. Using sex toys in your sex play and for solo pleasure, you can experience amazing sexual sensations and orgasms.

Pleasurable Pulsator Positions

Megan Barnett, Sep 08, 2016

Pulsators are incredibly versatile products that offer a whole host of pleasure sensations. Here's our guide to making the most out of your thrusting sex toy!

The Blue Tit – a 101 on how to get naughty with titw*nks for beginners

Alice Hunter, Jan 08, 2021

Alice shares her in-depth guide on how to get naughty with titw*nks for virgins. From positions, using plenty of lube, being enthusiastic and checking in with partners she says "Rather than simply being pornographic, the titw*nk can be highly personal".

Try a New Year Sex Detox

Samantha Evans, Jan 07, 2021

Spice up your sexual pleasure by adding sex toys into your sex play, tell your partner exactly what you want, talk about your sexual fantasies or make a wish list of all the sexual activities you'd love to try this year.

Buyer's Guides

New to sex toys? Need some guidance? Let us help you to that perfect purchase. Click here to see all Buyer's Guide articles.

Sexy Christmas Gifts For Men

Samantha Evans, Dec 04, 2018

Buying presents for your loved one can be difficult, especially if they seem to have everything or offer little inspiration. Another jumper isn't going to light any sexual sparks, so why not be more naughty than nice and get them what they really wants – the promise of fabulous sex!

Sexy Christmas Gift Guide 2019

Samantha Evans, Dec 04, 2018

Searching for that perfect gift that shows you care? Take a look at our Christmas Gift Guide for our top picks!

Have Yourself A Kinky Christmas

, Nov 01, 2018

Looking for the perfect unique gift? Look no further than our sizzling list of sexy stocking fillers that are sure to put a smile on your partner's face this Christmas!

Screaming O Charged Vooom Review

Samantha Evans, Oct 05, 2018

Samantha reviews the Screaming O Charged VOOOM, a unique 100% waterproof rechargeable bullet vibe, made from body safe ABS plastic.

Rocks-Off Chaiamo Review

Samantha Evans, Jan 11, 2019

Samantha reviews the Rocks-Off Chaiamo vibrator. This 10 function waterproof rechargeable vibrator offers intensely powerful vibrations for precision sexual stimulation and satisfaction.

Rocks-Off Everygirl Rabbit Review

Samantha Evans, Dec 17, 2018

Samantha reviews the Rocks-Off Everygirl Rabbit vibrator, a 10 function waterproof flexible rabbit vibrator.

Fact Or Fiction

There are a lot of historical myths and beliefs around sex: some of them have even survived in modern day culture. We think it's time to start busting them! Click here to see all Fact or Fiction articles.

Hitting The High Notes

Samantha Evans, Apr 13, 2015

Studies have shown that vibrators can give actors and singers more vocal power. A performance not to be missed!

Ovulation makes you competitive

Samantha Evans, Mar 24, 2015

New research recently published by the University of Texas and the University of Minnesota Carlson School of Management found that the ovulatory cycle makes women behave in a competitive manner which could have important implications for consumers, retailers and researchers.

Do Aphrodisiacs Really Work?

Samantha Evans, Mar 16, 2015

Can oysters put you in the mood for sex? A centuries old way of boosting your libido is to eat certain foods to put you in the mood.

Does penis size matter?

Samantha Evans, Mar 09, 2015

Does penis size matter? Men spend more time worrying about this age old question than their partners, many of whom are more than happy with their man's penis size

Be My Valentine

Samantha Evans, Jan 31, 2019

Did you know that 1 billion Valentine's cards are exchanged throughout the world each year, making Valentine's Day the second most popular card sending holiday after Christmas? But why do we celebrate this day in February each year?

Sexy August

Samantha Evans, Aug 02, 2017

August is the sexiest month of the year! According to a surveys, August is when many Brits have the most sex, followed closely by July and then June.

Jo Divine's Secret Diary

Who is Jo Divine? Uncover the steamy secrets of her sex life, experiences with new toys and more in her personal diary. Click here to read Jo Divine's Diary.

Sweet Satysfaction

Jo Divine, Feb 01, 2017

Jo decided to treat herself to the Satisfyer Pro 2. Would it be a toy that lived up to its name?

New Beginnings

Jo Divine, Dec 14, 2016

Although nothing has happened between them, Jo can't keep her meeting from Sophia from her husband any longer. How will he take the idea of his wife's infatuation with another woman?

Forbidden Fantasies

Jo Divine, Dec 08, 2016

Having returned from her weekend away, Jo still has Sophia very much on her mind. But what will she do when she's reunited with her husband?

An elegant encounter

Jo Divine, Nov 22, 2016

Would Jo be tasting more than just the fruity flavours of her drink during the wine tasting?

Captivating Caresses

Jo Divine, Jan 15, 2018

Jo's been invited around to Sophia's house for their second date. Will she be able to relax and enjoy her company?

Dinner For Two

Jo Divine, Apr 07, 2017

With Mr Divine away on business, Jo decided to bite the bullet and invite Sophia over for dinner. Would there be more than a meal on the menu?

Bathmate Hydromax Long Term Review

Bathmate Hydromax are a superior brand of penis pumps. Our intrepid reviewer lets you know the highs and lows of using a Bathmate Hydromax. Click here to read the Bathmate Blog.

Week 5 - Something's Gone Wrong!

Staff, Aug 04, 2014

A couple of problems - but luckily all it sorted quickly.

Week 4 - Gains Start To Stick

Staff, Jul 28, 2014

After 4 weeks, it seems that size gains thanks to the Bathmate Hydromax penis pump are starting to stick!

Week 3 - Goodbye to the Bathmate Ache!

Staff, Jul 21, 2014

The Bathmate ache has disappeared and I continue to see gains in both girth, length and erection hardness thanks to the Bathmate.

Week 2 with Bathmate Hydromax

Staff, Jul 14, 2014

A summary of my second week using the Bathmate Hydromax.

Week 9 - Back From Holiday

Staff, Sep 01, 2014

Back from my holidays - what will 10 days away from the Hydromax do?

Week 8 - Holiday Is Coming!

Staff, Aug 25, 2014

How will things change when I don't take the Bathmate Hydromax on holiday?

Our Authors

We have some top writers producing content for Jo Divine. Click here to see all our authors.

Louise Clarrant

Louise Clarrant, Jun 28, 2018

About Louise Clarrant

Aurora Glory

Aurora Glory, May 18, 2017

About Aurora Glory

Miss P

Miss P, Oct 16, 2015

About Miss P.

Megan Barnett

Megan Barnett, Feb 10, 2015

About Megan Barnett.

Alice Hunter

Staff, Jan 23, 2021

About Alice Hunter

Eleni Peitho

Staff, Jan 22, 2021

About Eleni Peitho